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A Added Path for ME

Dear Friends, Well,  it’s official! I am now a certified mentor and life coach. Another thing I can add to my resume. Last week I was on 14  different radio stations across the US, promoting my business and my book. Life is grand. I’m on my third career. I loved being a mother and a wife. I was in the car business 25 years. And now, teaching men and women to have a better sex life. I’m all about having […]

 A Mom Way Back When

I want to take a moment of indulgence and share a story about my mother. Dottie married Bill, my father, in 1939.  She was about 19 he 21. (Old in those days) They were pregnant, therefore; were not allowed to be married in the church, but they were married in the rectory by a priest. My mother was always excluded from my dad’s family. They felt she had the sole responsibility of ruining my father’s life. They never address a […]

American incarnation of Mother’s Day

President Woodrow Wilson, wife Ellen, and 3 daughters The American incarnation of Mother’s Day was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908. President Woodrow Wilson made it an official U.S. holiday in 1914, the first Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day is fast approaching. I wish I had my mother for one more Mother’s Day. But most of my life I didn’t get along with her. The reason was she had a daughter (me) who was very selfish. As I improved my life, […]

Short Story on Sex Toys

By Peggy Orenstein, Feb. 6, 2018 Hello, and Happy May to you all, I love my job. I research, read, and find the most interesting articles, some which are sent to me by my readers and friends. Before I started in the sex business, I was stuck in arcade thinking; everything regarding sexual intercourse was bad if it wasn’t the missionary position. WoW, did I wake up and find happiness. My very first sex toy was given to me by my husband.  I […]

What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity

Hows the gang today? I read this article and fully agree with the author, Karen Jones.         Artwork, Brian Rea I’m not sure it’s possible to justify my liaisons with married men, but what I learned from having them warrants discussion. Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid […]

Codependent Relationship

Hi Everybody, Thought I would share a great article.  7 Signs You’re In A Codependent Relationship An excessive desire to rescue people. Not allowing others to learn to do for themselves. Making a lot of sacrifices for someone else’s happiness, most of the time. If only I did this one thing better, this person will love me, so let me give in a different way, and the cycle continues. Having the need to be needed.  Difficulty setting and keeping boundaries. Over blaming […]

Chocolate an Aphrodisiac?

Hi Everyone, I found this article and thought it might be of interest to you and your lover.   Now I want you to know, while you read this that your Sex Mentor is allergic to Chocolate.  Well, what is a girl to do with that one?  I buy carob.  Enjoy the read.   Is Chocolate Really an Aphrodisiac? Not really, even though throughout its history, chocolate has been purported as one. Chocolate contains small amounts of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA), […]

PART 3   TECHNOLOGY AND SEX

  Well, that’s kinda like an oxymoron. Do technology and sex go together? NO NO! Well, it’s not the old days anymore. For so many, it still is 1990. Fear is the quicksand of the mind. Let’s do a little changing. Technology can be very freeing and can be very friendly and helpful. If you must seduce your brain, texting can be one answer! We had television and the Atom bomb and polio vaccine before we had a study on sex. […]

Part 2 Our Brain

  PART 2, OUR BRAIN: You are not at the mercy of your emotions—your brain creates them.  All cultures have opinions and values about Love and Marriage and Sex. In the United States, the most important VALUE is love.    When it comes to love and marriage in some other Nations love has the lowest importance in a marriage.   What’s the difference do you think? Where does the importance come from? My stand is our culture teaches us through religion, parents, and the […]

RESENTMENTS DAMAGE OUR SEX LIVES

Resentments can do a lot of damage to our sex life. Part 1 Hello Everybody, Happy January This article is for both sexes. As always, I’m going to talk about sex; you know it is my favorite subject.  Well, in a roundabout way. I have discussed this before, but it bears repeating. I don’t think people believe me, but it’s the truth. When we have ill feeling towards our partner it affects our sex lives.  Here is an example I was mentoring […]