Codependent Relationship

Hi Everybody, Thought I would share a great article.  7 Signs You’re In A Codependent Relationship An excessive desire to rescue people. Not allowing others to learn to do for themselves. Making a lot of sacrifices for someone else’s happiness, most of the time. If only I did this one thing better, this person will love me, so let me give in a different way, and the cycle continues. Having the need to be needed.  Difficulty setting and keeping boundaries. Over blaming […]

Chocolate an Aphrodisiac?

Hi Everyone, I found this article and thought it might be of interest to you and your lover.   Now I want you to know, while you read this that your Sex Mentor is allergic to Chocolate.  Well, what is a girl to do with that one?  I buy carob.  Enjoy the read.   Is Chocolate Really an Aphrodisiac? Not really, even though throughout its history, chocolate has been purported as one. Chocolate contains small amounts of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA), […]


  Well, that’s kinda like an oxymoron. Do technology and sex go together? NO NO! Well, it’s not the old days anymore. For so many, it still is 1990. Fear is the quicksand of the mind. Let’s do a little changing. Technology can be very freeing and can be very friendly and helpful. If you must seduce your brain, texting can be one answer! We had television and the Atom bomb and polio vaccine before we had a study on sex. […]

Part 2 Our Brain

  PART 2, OUR BRAIN: You are not at the mercy of your emotions—your brain creates them.  All cultures have opinions and values about Love and Marriage and Sex. In the United States, the most important VALUE is love.    When it comes to love and marriage in some other Nations love has the lowest importance in a marriage.   What’s the difference do you think? Where does the importance come from? My stand is our culture teaches us through religion, parents, and the […]


Resentments can do a lot of damage to our sex life. Part 1 Hello Everybody, Happy January This article is for both sexes. As always, I’m going to talk about sex; you know it is my favorite subject.  Well, in a roundabout way. I have discussed this before, but it bears repeating. I don’t think people believe me, but it’s the truth. When we have ill feeling towards our partner it affects our sex lives.  Here is an example I was mentoring […]