October Sexy Tips on Sex

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

Imaginary Sex

You’re probably wondering what in the world am I talking about. Well, stay tuned.
There are many different forms of imaginary sex. Some of the best are: phone sex, self-masturbation, and what about great phone sex with you both in the same house?
If your sex is so-so and you would like to spice it up a bit and you really can’t think of anything. The library is out. Buy a book? You really don’t know what to buy. So, I hope my sexy tips on sex help you.

 

Phone sex is easy unless you’re too embarrassed to try it. If you can have sex with your partner why can’t you do it over the phone?

It’s very exciting and there are only a few simple rules.

A. You’re not in the same room.Both of you were in different places and naked.

B.Then describe to each other what you’re doing. Say put your hand on and around your cock, and move your finger etc. etc. He’ll say put your finger in your vagina move it this way move it that way in soft seductive tones.

Wait, especially if your partner has asked you to put on some sort of sexy underwear and you start by describing it whether you’re a man or woman doesn’t matter. I mean men can wear sexy underwear and describe how it feels in his hand.

Pretend that you’re slipping the underwear off their body. Say you have children in the house and its bedtime.

One of you can go sit in the car and the other in your bedroom. Follow #1 directions!   You’re at a party, or PTA or even Church, yes, I know what you’re thinking. (Hogwash. God Loves Sex that’s why he made it). You can lean over to your partner say something seductive “I’m not wearing any underwear and I’m thinking of you.”

One of you is in a hotel; the other one calls home. Prepared have your lube, have your hand, have your vibrator and describe everything that you’re doing for them. By the time they get home they will be ravenous for you. Or they are gone for a couple of days texting little thoughts. Plant a little seed of sexiness. Things like this start the old juices flowing but, be willing to try something new, and if you’re embarrassed, ask yourself why.

Here’s another favorite to suggest. The female is on the bed and she’s dressed beguilingly? Across from the bed, sitting in a chair with their eyes solely on you, they can be naked. Let your lover talk you through touching yourself. It’s very alluring and it makes your head want to explode with excitement and tingles with guilty pleasure. In a scenario like this what happens is the person sitting in the chair gets so turned on, but you leave instructions that they can’t join you until you’re just about ready to climax. Your job is to take care of you. It’s very exciting to watch your partner touch themselves. Being seductive is the key. Sometimes being able to see only a little bit can arouse the imagination far better than complete nakedness.

I promise you, once you try this technique it can be so much fun, and it will become easier and easier. It’s extremely seductive.

The only thing you will lose is the fun you might have. 

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August, Sexy Tip on Sex

Fantasies? Childs play?

As we grow-up we have been accused of being childish and we need to act our age! Too bad we lose that sense of play and enjoyment with each other. This is what fantasies can bring us.  Intimacy, and joy.

My dictionary has 13 definitions for the word fantasy; Illusions, hallucination, imagination, conjuring up, made up images, ingenious thoughts, the invention of the mind, a psychological need, wondrous and fanciful day dreams.

I was thinking about this the other day.  Sometimes a fantasy can be with another person for several people, or by yourself and or your lover. Sometimes just thinking about sexy things, turns us on, but do we act on it? Like when your partner comes home you jump them.
I know talking about sexual things like wants, desires, and fantasies are difficult. Especially if you’re thinking about talking about it. One element which is important is trust. Do you trust your partner? Sometimes it is easier to talk a stranger than to our lover. What I mean is, sometimes we want to do something or say something but our head tells us we better not go there, he’ll be mad, he’ll reject me, and she’ll be upset.  Then we go back-and-forth in our mind I call it mental masturbation. So here are my suggestion is how to put a stop to it.

  1. Communicate 2. Be positive 3. Don’t give up 4. Just go for it.

Let’s assume your fantasy is touching is your mate in a certain way or in a certain spot,  running your fingers through their hair, massaging his backside,  back of her legs. Can you say and do those things to your partner?

One of your fantasy might be joining your partner in the shower without notice. What do you think would happen? Walk in and start soaping each other up all over drying off, or not. Falling into bed for some moist intimate sex play.

I believe we can start easily with fantasizing about our own partner and doing it in small increments. Even if it’s difficult for you, try. The first time you attempt this it takes a lot of guts.    The majority of us don’t want to look silly or foolish.  Those of us who are silly and foolish, we can have more fun!

Remember fantasies can be an adventure. So get ready to go on one and pack light!

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

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July’s Sexy Tip on Sex

 

 

Pick a position on the clock. Text your partner and say “I have a new sex position and its call (9:00 o’clock, or whatever time you pick).”  Or take a picture of the clock and send it.  Text  “pick the time of day that YOU want me!  Sit back and watch what happens. Remember the only thing which is required is to have fun. Diversity is the Spice of Life!!!  Enjoy

 

 

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

“NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE SEXY”

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May’s and June’s Sexy Tip & Toy

Shower Sex…..MMM GOOD

 

SEX WARNING: Slow and Steady and  be careful.

 

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Not all showers or tubs are conducive to have two people in the shower together, but if they are, here are a few ideas and positions.

Remember it’s an adventure, don’t be shy.

If you have children, get rid of (no, not the kids) the bath toys, unless you have a vibrating rubber ducky!

Also there is a plethora of water proof toys which will help you the screams with pleasure and won’t be heard over the shower. Well I hope not!

If you have tender knees put down a towel.  Oral sex in the shower can be very hot.  Warm water running down your back plus a warm mouth.  It’s wonderful. Here are a couple toys for a leg up to fun sex!

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  1. Cowgirl or Cowboy. Whoever is up for being on the bottom or knees you might need an extra towel. Protect those knees.
  2. Oral Sex. This isn’t a cop-out!  Not all sex has to be penetrative. Standing and receiving oral sex with the water on both of you, then start licking all over. Play fair and take turns!
  3. Doggy Style. Standing doggy style, have your partner enter  you from behind with his penis or a strap on for deeper penetration.
  4. Rimming in the shower, you’re both all clean and then more fun can start analingus (licking around the rim of the bum). Your partner can sit positioning themselves on floor put the other partner rump in their lovers face using the tongue for the tool for pleasure.
  5. Kama Sutra. Water position. Sitting on the floor with your back against the shower wall shower bench. Sitting on your partners lap and the other partner spreads her legs, letting herself be played with fingers, or a clit toy or one which penetrates. Then turn this one spot around and let your partner feel the magic of vibration all over his genitals while you give a BJ.

Forget the high intensity lights, you won’t need the heat light either. Pull out the candles to add to the ambience.  Just a reminder, water can be drying on the vagina, so don’t forget the lube.

Here are cartoon charters sure to put a smile or your face

Fun pictures to make you laugh

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

“NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE SEXY”

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What is Teabagging

Why Teabagging Is Hotter — & More Complicated — Than You Might Think

Sex is about Pleasure.  Yes, to make babies also, but if that isn’t on the table, do we abstain?  Hell No!

Sex is simple, but we humans seem to complicate most things in our lives. Which takes away our joy and fun.  I love to find new and interesting things to bring to your Tool Box for consideration you can think about and maybe have the Guts to try. Trying is the most fun. “Remember there should be variety in Love Sport”

(Karma Sutra)

Please click on this link  refinery29.com/what-is-teabagging-blowjob-tips

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

“NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE SEXY”

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