August, Sexy Tip on Sex

Fantasies? Childs play?

As we grow-up we have been accused of being childish and we need to act our age! Too bad we lose that sense of play and enjoyment with each other. This is what fantasies can bring us.  Intimacy, and joy.

My dictionary has 13 definitions for the word fantasy; Illusions, hallucination, imagination, conjuring up, made up images, ingenious thoughts, the invention of the mind, a psychological need, wondrous and fanciful day dreams.

I was thinking about this the other day.  Sometimes a fantasy can be with another person for several people, or by yourself and or your lover. Sometimes just thinking about sexy things, turns us on, but do we act on it? Like when your partner comes home you jump them.
I know talking about sexual things like wants, desires, and fantasies are difficult. Especially if you’re thinking about talking about it. One element which is important is trust. Do you trust your partner? Sometimes it is easier to talk a stranger than to our lover. What I mean is, sometimes we want to do something or say something but our head tells us we better not go there, he’ll be mad, he’ll reject me, and she’ll be upset.  Then we go back-and-forth in our mind I call it mental masturbation. So here are my suggestion is how to put a stop to it.

  1. Communicate 2. Be positive 3. Don’t give up 4. Just go for it.

Let’s assume your fantasy is touching is your mate in a certain way or in a certain spot,  running your fingers through their hair, massaging his backside,  back of her legs. Can you say and do those things to your partner?

One of your fantasy might be joining your partner in the shower without notice. What do you think would happen? Walk in and start soaping each other up all over drying off, or not. Falling into bed for some moist intimate sex play.

I believe we can start easily with fantasizing about our own partner and doing it in small increments. Even if it’s difficult for you, try. The first time you attempt this it takes a lot of guts.    The majority of us don’t want to look silly or foolish.  Those of us who are silly and foolish, we can have more fun!

Remember fantasies can be an adventure. So get ready to go on one and pack light!

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

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July’s Sexy Tip on Sex

 

 

Pick a position on the clock. Text your partner and say “I have a new sex position and its call (9:00 o’clock, or whatever time you pick).”  Or take a picture of the clock and send it.  Text  “pick the time of day that YOU want me!  Sit back and watch what happens. Remember the only thing which is required is to have fun. Diversity is the Spice of Life!!!  Enjoy

 

 

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

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May’s and June’s Sexy Tip & Toy

Shower Sex…..MMM GOOD

 

SEX WARNING: Slow and Steady and  be careful.

 

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Not all showers or tubs are conducive to have two people in the shower together, but if they are, here are a few ideas and positions.

Remember it’s an adventure, don’t be shy.

If you have children, get rid of (no, not the kids) the bath toys, unless you have a vibrating rubber ducky!

Also there is a plethora of water proof toys which will help you the screams with pleasure and won’t be heard over the shower. Well I hope not!

If you have tender knees put down a towel.  Oral sex in the shower can be very hot.  Warm water running down your back plus a warm mouth.  It’s wonderful. Here are a couple toys for a leg up to fun sex!

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  1. Cowgirl or Cowboy. Whoever is up for being on the bottom or knees you might need an extra towel. Protect those knees.
  2. Oral Sex. This isn’t a cop-out!  Not all sex has to be penetrative. Standing and receiving oral sex with the water on both of you, then start licking all over. Play fair and take turns!
  3. Doggy Style. Standing doggy style, have your partner enter  you from behind with his penis or a strap on for deeper penetration.
  4. Rimming in the shower, you’re both all clean and then more fun can start analingus (licking around the rim of the bum). Your partner can sit positioning themselves on floor put the other partner rump in their lovers face using the tongue for the tool for pleasure.
  5. Kama Sutra. Water position. Sitting on the floor with your back against the shower wall shower bench. Sitting on your partners lap and the other partner spreads her legs, letting herself be played with fingers, or a clit toy or one which penetrates. Then turn this one spot around and let your partner feel the magic of vibration all over his genitals while you give a BJ.

Forget the high intensity lights, you won’t need the heat light either. Pull out the candles to add to the ambience.  Just a reminder, water can be drying on the vagina, so don’t forget the lube.

Here are cartoon charters sure to put a smile or your face

Fun pictures to make you laugh

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

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What is Teabagging

Why Teabagging Is Hotter — & More Complicated — Than You Might Think

Sex is about Pleasure.  Yes, to make babies also, but if that isn’t on the table, do we abstain?  Hell No!

Sex is simple, but we humans seem to complicate most things in our lives. Which takes away our joy and fun.  I love to find new and interesting things to bring to your Tool Box for consideration you can think about and maybe have the Guts to try. Trying is the most fun. “Remember there should be variety in Love Sport”

(Karma Sutra)

Please click on this link  refinery29.com/what-is-teabagging-blowjob-tips

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

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SEXY TIP and A TOY

“Two for One”

A Strap on for Men:  Why use a hollow strap on?

Hollow strap on could be  wonderful additions to the land of sexual enhancement products and they have many uses.  Traditionally used for men with mild to severe ED (Erectile Dysfunction).  Hollow Dildos, essentially, allowing a man to place his penis inside (even if completely limp) and pleasure his partner. There are more purposes for a hollow dildo than just that!  Not to mention women can use them too, you know, women on women!

Here are some reasons:

  1. It can change the experience for her and super exciting for him.
  2. Partner has mild to severe ED
  3. Sometimes this act can help bring the erections back
  4. To please her in a way more natural without using a vibrator
  5. Allows men to continue pleasing their partner until she has had her own fill.  It is like getting a bonus round during sex!
  6. All penises are not alike, some are more gifted than others so this way they can add girth and length.
  7. Women can use them too with a woman or a man. Some couples like anal penetration and this works very well with them.
  8. Also, being able to discuss this new toy and how we will use it is mental foreplay, and that creates an exciting turn on.

I did ask around a few men.  Ages 30 to 75

They said the same; if my lady wants to try it I’m game. One gentleman said, “Hell if I get more sex, I’ll try anything once”.

Remember, this is a sexual adventure. Well Ladies and Gents, will you try anything once?  Try it and give us some feedback.

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I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofplseasure.com, and I will answer you, and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by  “sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”, and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

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