December 2017

Man on bottom Woman on top #5

The man sits on the couch, and she sits on top, facing each other. Then, the woman uses the back of the couch to props her legs up in a “V” formation on either side of her partner’s body.

In this way, you achieve a deeper penetration and provides an eye to eye contact, and a very sexy view. For a more advanced take on the pose, the Woman can cross her legs around the man’s  midsection, creating a tight squeeze.

Now, this new position may take a moment to place yourself into but, once there you can put your groove on.  Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah

 

Refinery 29 sex position

 

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November 2017

Man’s G spot? Where are you hiding?

 

There’s a lot of controversy about a woman’s G spot. Some say it doesn’t exist. I say, “Yes it does!”

Does a man have a G Spot? Yes, he does. Men have a spot on their body that is extremely sensitive; getting to it is another situation. Keep reading and allow me to explain.

It’s the prostate or perineum. Surprised? In my opinion, there are several ways to approach the prostate, which is inside the anus.

You can start by touching, gently fondling, caressing with finger play. With a lubed finger or thumb massages with a little pressure his perineum, in the area between the base of his penis and his anus.

It’s a very smooth piece of skin and supersensitive, and for some, it’s very erotic. The best sexual position for this is doggie style with taking your hand and finger reaching backward or when you’re performing oral sex.

His partner will be able to tell by the way he moves, moans, and reacts. For most men, it causes a very deep, more sensitive climax. Just like us, women can have several different intensifying climaxes. So, can men.

The second approach it’s not for everyone, but if your partner is open to something different, you might want to try.

Start with a lubed glove or a finger (condom) over your finger or a small butt plug and slowly enter his anus.

Most important is that he is sexually excited because that releases the tension as you enter his bum. There’s all kinds of information on this. If he’s willing just to experiment, talk about it first. Then try. If it doesn’t feel good, or if you don’t like it and he’s not comfortable, then do something different but, the communication is the key.

I recommend a book called the “Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” by Charlie Glickman, Aislinn Emirzina and Debbie Herbenick.

A few tips:

  • Go Slow, start slow
  • Gentle pressure
  • Make sure your nail has no sharp edges
  • Start with small toys, slim vibrator or finger vibrator
  • Try different types of stroking, rubbing and circling the anus
  • Try curving motion from front to back
  • Do not use the same toy for anus then for vagina; keep separate.
  • Your man might not really be interested or says NO! But he might be Ok with rubbing and massaging his perineum. If that and that alone pleases him, and it brings him pleasure, then that’s GREAT!

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

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October Sexy Tips on Sex

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

Imaginary Sex

You’re probably wondering what in the world am I talking about. Well, stay tuned.
There are many different forms of imaginary sex. Some of the best are: phone sex, self-masturbation, and what about great phone sex with you both in the same house?
If your sex is so-so and you would like to spice it up a bit and you really can’t think of anything. The library is out. Buy a book? You really don’t know what to buy. So, I hope my sexy tips on sex help you.

 

Phone sex is easy unless you’re too embarrassed to try it. If you can have sex with your partner why can’t you do it over the phone?

It’s very exciting and there are only a few simple rules.

A. You’re not in the same room.Both of you were in different places and naked.

B.Then describe to each other what you’re doing. Say put your hand on and around your cock, and move your finger etc. etc. He’ll say put your finger in your vagina move it this way move it that way in soft seductive tones.

Wait, especially if your partner has asked you to put on some sort of sexy underwear and you start by describing it whether you’re a man or woman doesn’t matter. I mean men can wear sexy underwear and describe how it feels in his hand.

Pretend that you’re slipping the underwear off their body. Say you have children in the house and its bedtime.

One of you can go sit in the car and the other in your bedroom. Follow #1 directions!   You’re at a party, or PTA or even Church, yes, I know what you’re thinking. (Hogwash. God Loves Sex that’s why he made it). You can lean over to your partner say something seductive “I’m not wearing any underwear and I’m thinking of you.”

One of you is in a hotel; the other one calls home. Prepared have your lube, have your hand, have your vibrator and describe everything that you’re doing for them. By the time they get home they will be ravenous for you. Or they are gone for a couple of days texting little thoughts. Plant a little seed of sexiness. Things like this start the old juices flowing but, be willing to try something new, and if you’re embarrassed, ask yourself why.

Here’s another favorite to suggest. The female is on the bed and she’s dressed beguilingly? Across from the bed, sitting in a chair with their eyes solely on you, they can be naked. Let your lover talk you through touching yourself. It’s very alluring and it makes your head want to explode with excitement and tingles with guilty pleasure. In a scenario like this what happens is the person sitting in the chair gets so turned on, but you leave instructions that they can’t join you until you’re just about ready to climax. Your job is to take care of you. It’s very exciting to watch your partner touch themselves. Being seductive is the key. Sometimes being able to see only a little bit can arouse the imagination far better than complete nakedness.

I promise you, once you try this technique it can be so much fun, and it will become easier and easier. It’s extremely seductive.

The only thing you will lose is the fun you might have. 

 February 11, 2018, is a scheduled Work Shop for Women.   More information to follow. 

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August, Sexy Tip on Sex

Fantasies? Childs play?

As we grow-up we have been accused of being childish and we need to act our age! Too bad we lose that sense of play and enjoyment with each other. This is what fantasies can bring us.  Intimacy, and joy.

My dictionary has 13 definitions for the word fantasy; Illusions, hallucination, imagination, conjuring up, made up images, ingenious thoughts, the invention of the mind, a psychological need, wondrous and fanciful day dreams.

I was thinking about this the other day.  Sometimes a fantasy can be with another person for several people, or by yourself and or your lover. Sometimes just thinking about sexy things, turns us on, but do we act on it? Like when your partner comes home you jump them.
I know talking about sexual things like wants, desires, and fantasies are difficult. Especially if you’re thinking about talking about it. One element which is important is trust. Do you trust your partner? Sometimes it is easier to talk a stranger than to our lover. What I mean is, sometimes we want to do something or say something but our head tells us we better not go there, he’ll be mad, he’ll reject me, and she’ll be upset.  Then we go back-and-forth in our mind I call it mental masturbation. So here are my suggestion is how to put a stop to it.

  1. Communicate 2. Be positive 3. Don’t give up 4. Just go for it.

Let’s assume your fantasy is touching is your mate in a certain way or in a certain spot,  running your fingers through their hair, massaging his backside,  back of her legs. Can you say and do those things to your partner?

One of your fantasy might be joining your partner in the shower without notice. What do you think would happen? Walk in and start soaping each other up all over drying off, or not. Falling into bed for some moist intimate sex play.

I believe we can start easily with fantasizing about our own partner and doing it in small increments. Even if it’s difficult for you, try. The first time you attempt this it takes a lot of guts.    The majority of us don’t want to look silly or foolish.  Those of us who are silly and foolish, we can have more fun!

Remember fantasies can be an adventure. So get ready to go on one and pack light!

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

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July’s Sexy Tip on Sex

 

 

Pick a position on the clock. Text your partner and say “I have a new sex position and its call (9:00 o’clock, or whatever time you pick).”  Or take a picture of the clock and send it.  Text  “pick the time of day that YOU want me!  Sit back and watch what happens. Remember the only thing which is required is to have fun. Diversity is the Spice of Life!!!  Enjoy

 

 

 

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com and I will answer you, and of course, engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

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