December: Sexy Tip on Sex

Ingredients needed: 1 Partner, Finger Vibrator, little lube, and a chair with no arms. (The finger vibe is on my site)

I express to my lover this would be a kinda quickie kinky sex. I wanted him in a chair touching his cock and masturbating, just a gentle stroking. I’d walk up slowly, and lift one of my legs and do the straddle slide-down move. I could feel a tingling moving down my neck and shoulders, making its way to my clit. I was getting really hot and he was nice and hard.

I took my finger vibe and, at the same time, lowering myself on to him while touching myself. Irresistible buzz on my fingertip vibrated my partner and me. I’d slide myself on to him, and we would gently move together until I came, then him or together.

Now that’s nice, can we do it again?

I read this to my girlfriend and her response was: Hell, I need a cigarette.   Remember never be afraid to be sexy

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Sexy Tips on Sex… Part 2

Sexy Tips on Sex…Part 2

Touching

Touching is a sexual tool we discussed in my other blogs. However, I’m breaking these down to kissing, touching, and massages.  I feel this is extremely important.

In my book, A Little Bit of Pleasure. I talk about how important it is to touch. There are people who are starved for the touch of another human being. In the 70s there was an article done for LIFE magazine. There were three outlines of a chimpanzee. One was made of wire, and of wood, he was repulsed and agitated. The other one was made of fur. Baby chimpanzee clung to the warm fur.

The term bonding came into effect at this time; the Bonding Effect was made very popular. Children can die from the lack of human touch and contact they literally starve emotionally.

When an adult goes without human touch something happens called skin hunger.

We hunger for the touch and the smell of another human being. I have personally experienced it myself and to lie next to someone who you care and have feelings for and to be able to nuzzle up and smell the aroma of their skin and the warmth of their flesh is extremely satisfying. Sometimes a good cuddle or a good hug is better than anything. To be in a relationship and be denied this is very painful.

Hugs

After you read this I would like you to look at some of the ways people hug for example people that do

  1. Shoulder to shoulder: it’s like an A-frame; the middle does not touch.
  2. Pat them on the back like you’re burping the baby; there sweetie pie. They’re the ones who are really quick, no emotion just hug break; Do not want to get too close.
  3. There’s the side wait to hug you don’t want the body parts the touch so you avoided it by a little side hug and a little peck on the cheek and; don’t want that body contact.

4.Then there are those who I feel the most sadness for, and that is don’t touch me; I don’t like to be touched; just don’t touch me; I wonder what         happened to this person growing up that they didn’t want to be touched?

  1. There’s that wonderful full-body hug, where you walk into the arms of someone who is eagerly awaiting a hug from you.

Those are the best and I love to give them and receive them..

Massage

 I love a good massage, I have had them several time. Only with my first massage was I aroused by a professional, but it was an internal feeling; I was aware of the affect it had.

Massage Therapy Has Evolved Over 5,000 Years

The practice of using touch as a healing method derives from customs and techniques rooted in ancient history. Civilizations in the East and West found that natural healing and massage could heal injuries, relieve pain, and prevent and cure illnesses. What’s more, it helped reduce stress and produced deep relaxation. There are hundreds of different massages disciplines.

“Ill try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure.” Mae West

Pledge to each other to try as many saucy new sex positions in one month. Whether it’s one new move a night or two weekly, vow to leave your sexual inhibitions outside the bedroom door for a full 30 days. Just play and have fun.  You have nothing to lose..

Worry less

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October: Sexy Tips on Sex…Part 1

Sexy Tip on Sex… Part 1

These are not just sexy tips but a way to enhance your relationship with your partner. Remember were on an Adventure!

“I have found men who didn’t know how to kiss. I’ve always found time to teach them”.  Mae West

Week One: Kissing, and Hand-holdingkiss

Week Two: Touching, and Massages

Kissing is cultural. Many cultures have different customs: several where they do not kiss, they are afraid of taking their soul. Somalians, the Lepcha of Sikkim, Sirono of Bolivia. South Africans saw whites kissing, they apparently said “Look at them – they eat each other’s saliva and dirt”. Adults in some Amazonian tribes did not kiss, though the children did.

But today, if you do not how to plant a kiss, it can be a deal breaker for most.

Kissing starts the whole process of sex, not just intercourse, but the beginning of enjoyment.

Animals, insects, fish, and the birds and the bees do it.  Yep, kissing is the courting for some animals. They fluff their feathers, strut and make all kinds of noises. Mammals fight for the right to mate; highly sexed Bonobo chimpanzees are known to kiss each other passionately. And orangutans in Borneo have learned to kiss each other by observing humans. Fish swim in circles, some fish and insects kill their partner after they mate, I do not recommend this, and I do not care how bad they kiss. Got that?

The Kama Sutra, which dates back to the 2nd century, devotes an entire chapter to modes of kissing. Kissing was considered to be on a par with coitus, SO!!!Kissing is the key.

Do you think about kissing and the impact it has on your sexual body?

It is the beginning of surrender, a signal to the brain THAT more is coming, (maybe not now) but soon). I will say again: the brain is biggest and most powerful sex organ you have. Its Joyful Intimacy is luscious kissing.  Kissing can be so seductive, when the lips are warm and slightly wet, and the start of a kiss is a growing heat.

I have watched people kiss for years. On TV either it’s a peck, tight lipped or they inhale each other.

A Kiss is cultivating love or like for each other.

Kissing breaks down walls. There is so much untapped joy in our bodies; the untethered prize is the climax. The climax is a life force.

I recommend this book The Kissing School, Cherie Byrd…

Also, there is a kissing school in Seattle, I kid you not.

Hand holding, the fingers have a magic touch

Hand holding is an outward sign that we like each other. To the man “she is mine” “Me Tarzan.”

Women “he loves me, I’m taken” I’m sure there are all kinds of opinions out there, but this is my research.

If a couple like’s or loves each other, the body releases stress reducing hormones which makes the couple happier.

Note: The person with the hand on top is the one who’s leading. You can’t pull and direct with your hand stuck behind. Next time you hold hands, even while sitting, try switching positions and see how that feels (probably awkward). This say one thing or 2 about your relationship.  The study of body language

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

I blog and write a monthly newsletter on my website, WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofplseasure.com, and I will answer you; and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by “Commenting”, “liking” and ”sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”,and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

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September Sexy Tips on Sex

 FOREPLAY & BONDAGE 

Foreplay is such an important part of the intimate connection between couples.  Oftentimes, however, our foreplay becomes sort of routine:  1. kiss her neck 2. touch her breasts 3. grab his penis 4. give him a blowjob 5. little oral for her – and then sex.  Yeah, it all works.  It’s like getting in the car and hurrying to get there and then we can have fun Right? Right? Let’s think about something a little different?  Sharing erotic thoughts you might have is a big bold move; it’s a treasure hunt. The treasure is Pleasure! 

 

Bondage: Don’t’ freak out, let’s start with a little bit… everything in moderation….. Slow and steady is the course .The destination is FUN.

Most of us think bondage mean whips and chains.  However, there is a simple way to have a more thrilling experience.  I’m going to give you a few easy access tools. A neck tie, scarves or feathers, and a blindfold.  See that’s not scary…. Gentle preparation.Feathers

When we are not in control, and feeling a bit helpless, and we cannot see or move, others scents’ kick in, and they do kick in.  Just the touch of a feather, a scarf which is run over the abdomen, breast, hips, and backside, sends prickly sensation all over the body. This happens to both sexes, for some more intensely than others.

It’s new, this playground… It takes a bit of practice (remember it’s play time, fun is the objective)

Some women sense the need to be taken or overpowered, some men like the feeling of being dominated.  Restraints give the receiving lover suspense and anticipation, because you can’t see what’s coming and the restraints keep you from pulling away, this then heightens and everything is excites is the senses, while you are helpless. This influences the rhythm and speed of the one in control.

OK, here are the mechanics of the foreplay: tie your partner to the leg of the coffee table, or bed post, door handle or dresser. I’m sure you can find something. First the blindfold then tie up. All the while you can have sexy music playing or speak in a soft tone and tell your playmate what you’re going to do next.  While this is happening take your finger and just run it over any part of their body. Since your partner is tied, they can be kissed, masturbated, ridden, and teased into an orgasm.  There is only one rule to maintain: for this to be effective it is not to be painful or dangerous. This is a powerful and popular sex fantasy. Go and ENJOY each other!

I’m here to tell you: fear of being foolish is the death of fun in a relationship.

 

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Hold on and Ride’em Cowgirl….

This is from the book “Ride ‘em Cowgirl!”, by my friend, Dr. Sade Allison. Ride'em Cowgirl

 

OK this position can be twisted up or rolled over, but only you and your partner will be able to find the perfect fit and movement.  I caution you both….. This is to be fun, if it doesn’t work LAUGH AND A LOT.

Your man lays on his back (give him a little snakey lick, just to tease) then you straddle him, then turn around and face his feet. Yes, while he is in you. (This position will not get you an audition in Circus Soleil)

Now grab his ankles, hook your legs under his thighs or lay by the outside of his thigh.  This keeps him from popping out!  Now ride’em like bad guys are chasing you… You are in complete control and can manipulate your body to hit all the right spots, this way you can influence the timing of your orgasm.

The benefit of this position is the penis is angled differently which causes a complete transformed feeling for the both of you. Now, if he has a belly, then it’s out of the way and you can use it as a back rest.

With this position you can lay almost flat across his legs. You will be facing his toes.  This way he can do two thing with a well lubed finger; he can insert into your anus, if that is something that appeals to you or just lube well and massage the area, it’s can be very pleasurable.

I know these tips are not for everyone, but sex and their positions are not like salt and pepper. There over 350 spices in the world. So if Garlic does do it for you, don’t eat it.  Try another!!!!

 

Feel free to contact me with any  comments.  You can privately email me at me@alittlebitofpleasure.com.

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