February, Cafe Foreplay

FEBRUARY

                Café  Foreplay

Martin van Maële’s print Francion 15, depicts a couple engaging in foreplay outdoors
  1. Foreplay includes;  “Sexual actions (such as kissing and touching) which people do with each other before they have sex”
  2. Erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse
  3. Fire up, the engine
  4. In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity
  5. Foreplay stimulates both partners’ sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners
  6. Sexual desire is an aspect of a person’s sexuality and foreplay, which varies from one person to another. In the person in some subtle and romantic way that he or she has that desire or by provoking other Erotic Stimuli
  7. Sexual role-playing or sex games can create sexual interest. These games can be played in a variety of situations, and have been enhanced by technology. This type of extended foreplay can involve SMS messaging, phone calls, online chat, or other forms of distance communication. This tantalization builds up sexual tension

We have a smorgasbord of gameplays to pique our sexual tension to drive us to the bedroom or any other places you want to get it on.

Foreplay is an art form, but being an articulate lover in this form of sexuality only take a little time and energy.

  • Start the Foreplay in the morning, before you leave for work
  • Call during the day and make nice, say nice
  • Send a card, for no reason
  • Get a good body lotion and start rubbing everything
  • This is for men and women to do to each other
  • Kindness is an Aphrodisiac
  • Want more? Give more!

Do them all or one a week.  It will pay off if it doesn’t work maybe you’re with the wrong person.  It’s just a thought.

ME, A Little Bit of Pleasure

 

January Sexy Tips on Sex

Sexy Tips on Sex

Froggy Style

When doggy feels a little been there/done that, why not get inspiration  from the frisky amphibians? Researchers have discovered that Bombay night frogs are into something called the “dorsal straddle.” A human version; looks like this: Kneel on the couch with your knees touching the back cushions, your torso upright, and your arms draped over the backrest for support. Have him kneel on the couch behind you (your back will be up against his chest), then then enter you. Like doggy, it’s a snug fit that will increases stimulation for both of you, but the full-body contact also ups the intimacy, since he can easily kiss the sides of your neck while he’s wrapped around you. Now hop to it you horny toads.

I tell you from experience, some position are not workable for all people, but it’s worth a try and a good laugh.

I borrowed this Sexy Tip from Discuss “Woman’s Health Magazine” November 2016

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December: Sexy Tip on Sex

Ingredients needed: 1 Partner, Finger Vibrator, little lube, and a chair with no arms. (The finger vibe is on my site)

I express to my lover this would be a kinda quickie kinky sex. I wanted him in a chair touching his cock and masturbating, just a gentle stroking. I’d walk up slowly, and lift one of my legs and do the straddle slide-down move. I could feel a tingling moving down my neck and shoulders, making its way to my clit. I was getting really hot and he was nice and hard.

I took my finger vibe and, at the same time, lowering myself on to him while touching myself. Irresistible buzz on my fingertip vibrated my partner and me. I’d slide myself on to him, and we would gently move together until I came, then him or together.

Now that’s nice, can we do it again?

I read this to my girlfriend and her response was: Hell, I need a cigarette.   Remember never be afraid to be sexy

I’m open for  one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

I blog and write a monthly newsletter on my website, WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofplseasure.com, and I will answer you; and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

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Sexy Tips on Sex… Part 2

Sexy Tips on Sex…Part 2

Touching

Touching is a sexual tool we discussed in my other blogs. However, I’m breaking these down to kissing, touching, and massages.  I feel this is extremely important.

In my book, A Little Bit of Pleasure. I talk about how important it is to touch. There are people who are starved for the touch of another human being. In the 70s there was an article done for LIFE magazine. There were three outlines of a chimpanzee. One was made of wire, and of wood, he was repulsed and agitated. The other one was made of fur. Baby chimpanzee clung to the warm fur.

The term bonding came into effect at this time; the Bonding Effect was made very popular. Children can die from the lack of human touch and contact they literally starve emotionally.

When an adult goes without human touch something happens called skin hunger.

We hunger for the touch and the smell of another human being. I have personally experienced it myself and to lie next to someone who you care and have feelings for and to be able to nuzzle up and smell the aroma of their skin and the warmth of their flesh is extremely satisfying. Sometimes a good cuddle or a good hug is better than anything. To be in a relationship and be denied this is very painful.

Hugs

After you read this I would like you to look at some of the ways people hug for example people that do

  1. Shoulder to shoulder: it’s like an A-frame; the middle does not touch.
  2. Pat them on the back like you’re burping the baby; there sweetie pie. They’re the ones who are really quick, no emotion just hug break; Do not want to get too close.
  3. There’s the side wait to hug you don’t want the body parts the touch so you avoided it by a little side hug and a little peck on the cheek and; don’t want that body contact.

4.Then there are those who I feel the most sadness for, and that is don’t touch me; I don’t like to be touched; just don’t touch me; I wonder what         happened to this person growing up that they didn’t want to be touched?

  1. There’s that wonderful full-body hug, where you walk into the arms of someone who is eagerly awaiting a hug from you.

Those are the best and I love to give them and receive them..

Massage

 I love a good massage, I have had them several time. Only with my first massage was I aroused by a professional, but it was an internal feeling; I was aware of the affect it had.

Massage Therapy Has Evolved Over 5,000 Years

The practice of using touch as a healing method derives from customs and techniques rooted in ancient history. Civilizations in the East and West found that natural healing and massage could heal injuries, relieve pain, and prevent and cure illnesses. What’s more, it helped reduce stress and produced deep relaxation. There are hundreds of different massages disciplines.

“Ill try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure.” Mae West

Pledge to each other to try as many saucy new sex positions in one month. Whether it’s one new move a night or two weekly, vow to leave your sexual inhibitions outside the bedroom door for a full 30 days. Just play and have fun.  You have nothing to lose..

Worry less

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October: Sexy Tips on Sex…Part 1

Sexy Tip on Sex… Part 1

These are not just sexy tips but a way to enhance your relationship with your partner. Remember were on an Adventure!

“I have found men who didn’t know how to kiss. I’ve always found time to teach them”.  Mae West

Week One: Kissing, and Hand-holdingkiss

Week Two: Touching, and Massages

Kissing is cultural. Many cultures have different customs: several where they do not kiss, they are afraid of taking their soul. Somalians, the Lepcha of Sikkim, Sirono of Bolivia. South Africans saw whites kissing, they apparently said “Look at them – they eat each other’s saliva and dirt”. Adults in some Amazonian tribes did not kiss, though the children did.

But today, if you do not how to plant a kiss, it can be a deal breaker for most.

Kissing starts the whole process of sex, not just intercourse, but the beginning of enjoyment.

Animals, insects, fish, and the birds and the bees do it.  Yep, kissing is the courting for some animals. They fluff their feathers, strut and make all kinds of noises. Mammals fight for the right to mate; highly sexed Bonobo chimpanzees are known to kiss each other passionately. And orangutans in Borneo have learned to kiss each other by observing humans. Fish swim in circles, some fish and insects kill their partner after they mate, I do not recommend this, and I do not care how bad they kiss. Got that?

The Kama Sutra, which dates back to the 2nd century, devotes an entire chapter to modes of kissing. Kissing was considered to be on a par with coitus, SO!!!Kissing is the key.

Do you think about kissing and the impact it has on your sexual body?

It is the beginning of surrender, a signal to the brain THAT more is coming, (maybe not now) but soon). I will say again: the brain is biggest and most powerful sex organ you have. Its Joyful Intimacy is luscious kissing.  Kissing can be so seductive, when the lips are warm and slightly wet, and the start of a kiss is a growing heat.

I have watched people kiss for years. On TV either it’s a peck, tight lipped or they inhale each other.

A Kiss is cultivating love or like for each other.

Kissing breaks down walls. There is so much untapped joy in our bodies; the untethered prize is the climax. The climax is a life force.

I recommend this book The Kissing School, Cherie Byrd…

Also, there is a kissing school in Seattle, I kid you not.

Hand holding, the fingers have a magic touch

Hand holding is an outward sign that we like each other. To the man “she is mine” “Me Tarzan.”

Women “he loves me, I’m taken” I’m sure there are all kinds of opinions out there, but this is my research.

If a couple like’s or loves each other, the body releases stress reducing hormones which makes the couple happier.

Note: The person with the hand on top is the one who’s leading. You can’t pull and direct with your hand stuck behind. Next time you hold hands, even while sitting, try switching positions and see how that feels (probably awkward). This say one thing or 2 about your relationship.  The study of body language

I’m open for one on one life mentoring and accessible for seminars.

I blog and write a monthly newsletter on my website, WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

You can contact ME privately with your questions at me@alittlebitofplseasure.com, and I will answer you; and of course engage with me on my website  WWW.alittlebitofpleasure.com

Show your support by “Commenting”, “liking” and ”sharing” this newsletter on Facebook; and subscribe to our mailing list to receive once a month my “Newsletter”,Sexy Tips On Sex!”  “Toy of the Month”,and the “Blog”. Remember,”Sex can be fun”!

“NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE SEXY

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