At the beginning of the new year, humans seem to start a new plan to reinvent our lives. If that doesn’t work, there are always Mondays.
I myself, have done this very thing more times than I can count.
So here is my idea. Instead of giving up something, I thought I would change an attitude and behavior. Those are just two things that are doable.
If you have followed my blogs, you have noticed I’m big on kindness and the difference it makes in my life, including sex. But what I have observed is the murderous weapons we use on our spouses, children, co-workers, and everyday people. I refer to meanness, hate, arrogance, ego, pride and most of all controlling others to our will.
I consider those attitudes and behaviors weapons of mass destruction.
Those behaviors kill any desire for kindness, romance, hugging, nibbling and anything else which could be considered loving.
So, I decided to replace them with kindness, tolerance, understanding, and above all patience, for those whose opinion is different from mine, whose belief system is different than mine, skin color different than mine, and family members with different ideas than mine.
And the outcome has been that my life is more pleasant. Those things that we can’t put in a purse or a pocket or a refrigerator, those behaviors and attitudes, improve. They are tools which can be very useful in overcoming my difficulties and improving my life and those lives around me.
My wish is that 2019 is the very best we can make it whatever tools we choose to use.
PS: please forgive me for being so silent this month, I was hit with the I’m-going-to-kill-you bug.
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