Sexy Tips on Sex

August, Sexy Tip on Sex

Fantasies? Childs play?

As we grow-up we have been accused of being childish and we need to act our age! Too bad we lose that sense of play and enjoyment with each other. This is what fantasies can bring us.  Intimacy, and joy.

My dictionary has 13 definitions for the word fantasy; Illusions, hallucination, imagination, conjuring up, made up images, ingenious thoughts, the invention of the mind, a psychological need, wondrous and fanciful day dreams.

I was thinking about this the other day.  Sometimes a fantasy can be with another person for several people, or by yourself and or your lover. Sometimes just thinking about sexy things, turns us on, but do we act on it? Like when your partner comes home you jump them.
I know talking about sexual things like wants, desires, and fantasies are difficult. Especially if you’re thinking about talking about it. One element which is important is trust. Do you trust your partner? Sometimes it is easier to talk a stranger than to our lover. What I mean is, sometimes we want to do something or say something but our head tells us we better not go there, he’ll be mad, he’ll reject me, and she’ll be upset.  Then we go back-and-forth in our mind I call it mental masturbation. So here are my suggestion is how to put a stop to it.

  1. Communicate 2. Be positive 3. Don’t give up 4. Just go for it.

Let’s assume your fantasy is touching is your mate in a certain way or in a certain spot,  running your fingers through their hair, massaging his backside,  back of her legs. Can you say and do those things to your partner?

One of your fantasy might be joining your partner in the shower without notice. What do you think would happen? Walk in and start soaping each other up all over drying off, or not. Falling into bed for some moist intimate sex play.

I believe we can start easily with fantasizing about our own partner and doing it in small increments. Even if it’s difficult for you, try. The first time you attempt this it takes a lot of guts.    The majority of us don’t want to look silly or foolish.  Those of us who are silly and foolish, we can have more fun!

Remember fantasies can be an adventure. So get ready to go on one and pack light!

 

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