Sexy Tips on Sex

IS SEX BORING FOR YOU?  

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Do you feel you have to work too hard to get Your Happy Ending? 

There is no reason to settle for an average sex life.  Let’s explore new thoughts.

How about dirty, sweaty, all-around gratifying sex?  We were raised by telling us which parts go where and don’t get pregnant.  But Hot Nasty Sex? Enjoy yourself! Have fun! I never heard that, did you?  It’s possible, and probably it can happen to you. 

Practice. Play. Enjoy. Practice some more.  Start off with making it clear what you’re asking for.

Learning new ways to talk about sex can seem difficult at first. We don’t have many role models for it and a lot of men and women have internalized shame around sexual desires and/or even talking about them.

You could practice with each other sometimes, which gives you the opportunity to tell each other if any phrases are especially good or particularly challenging for you. And of course, you could practice asking your partner for sex, using this framework or something else. It would give you each some deeper insight into the other’s experiences. (This works well with yes/no/maybe lists.)

You can also practice this in non-sexual settings/ asking for what you might like.

  • If you’re in the mood for it, I’d like to get Chinese food tonight.
  • If you’re up for it, I want to go see a movie.
  • If you’re interested, I’m feeling like going climbing at the gym

Nobody is born knowing how to do this. Nobody!

Let go of your attachment to the outcome of your desire.

  • If you’re in the mood…
  • If it would turn you on…
  • If you’re into it…
  • If you’re feeling horny…
  • I would like to have sex with you.
  • I’m in the mood for a blowjob.
  • I’d love to tie you up.
  • It would turn me on if we tried that new vibrator.
  • I’d enjoy kissing you.

The only thing you will lose is the fun you might have. 

Next month, your sexy tip is going to be something cool… Wait for it!

 

I’m open for one-on-one life mentoring, workshops and seminars. I’m a certified Life Coach and Sex Mentor.

You can contact me privately with your questions at [email protected] and I will answer you, and, of course, you can  engage with me on my website

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