MY VALENTINE MESSAGE
I think Valentine’s Day can be a joyous time or a hard time and then, some people don’t give a shit.
I started watching the ads last week and it’s always about the guy giving the girl something. It’s a big time for the diamond market and I’m sure they’re not thinking about love, but about dollars and cents.
We are conditioned to think the bigger the diamond the more they love me. You know that’s not true, don’t you? But it’s what we’ve been told since we were little girls. I think it’s another one of those myths which we sign our signature to. I do believe it’s the same with the card business. I see men standing at the card aisle mumbling to themselves, trying to pick the right card. I asked a guy once if he was ok? He stated, “I have to find the right card because if I don’t, she’ll be mad at me.” Boy, that’s true love. This is not the first time I have heard this.
I don’t see in the ads the women doing for the man. Why is that? It’s something to think about.
I’ve always done something for my man. The best one was I had some balloons set up on his office desk with a roll of nickels attached to the balloons weighing them down and a card underneath. Inside I wrote, “I would lick him all over for a nickel.” Now, I think that’s a good idea. So, did He!!
So, instead of asking for what you want; see what you can give in terms of love and kindness.
Every picture my kids have given me an “I love you” or “you’re the best mom,” I have kept because I know their love is innocent and pure. In fact, I have two of them framed. Every time I look at them, I smile and am filled with love.
Show how much you love by the definition which best describes you even if it’s a roll of nickels.
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